Before kids, I knew what “good” looked like.
In my career, there were metrics. In my personal life, there were clear signals. I could measure progress, performance, impact. I could hold it all together… and I did.

It’s a strange thing to be hyper-aware of how you’re being perceived. It’s like having a mirror in every room not just one that shows your reflection, but one that reflects the thoughts and feelings of everyone around you.